Men retreat from 'hassle' of loving relationships

I can't agree with this article completely but i can agree with some ideas. I think that it depens on parson. My first boyfriend who desn't want to use money for me and doesn't want to use time for me like this article. His hobby is job. He said same thing like this article to me. He said that why do i have to sent you e-mail　everyday? to me. When i heard it, i was very sad. And I said that because i'm care what you do when we aren't together. I'm worrying about you to him. He couldn't compromise with me. And next my boyfriend who want to use time for me and sometimes use money for me. He liked to talk on the phone with me everyday and he liked to hang out with me. His opinion that job is most important for me and second is my girlfriend,so it depends on guys. Some guys who they think it's importnat for me to spend time with girlfriend and some guys who they think it's not important for me to spend time with girlfriend.